The most valuable guidance we can make to you is for you to love yourself.  Make time for yourself.  Talk to yourself with your nurturing voice, your voice of encouragement.   Put the critical part of yourself to the side.  Give yourself small victories.  Allow yourself to enjoy the learning that comes from failure and relax that you are not behind or not achieving, that everyone who gets to where they want to go has learned from failure.  Allow yourself to take pleasure in caring for yourself as you enjoy the journey you are embarking on.   It will have an impact on your mindset, your health and the way that you experience life.